Why I started She Who Attracts
I started She Who Attracts because I want you to feel deep in your soul that anything is possible.
Growing up, I was raised by two incredibly spiritual and motivated parents. They built a successful business from the ground up and eventually sold it so they could spend their time coaching and helping others. Watching them create a life on their own terms showed me that there was always another way.
They taught me that life is meant to be lived fully. That there is good in the world, good in people, and that signs and synchronicities are always guiding us if we're willing to pay attention.
Even with a loving childhood and parents who shared these beautiful beliefs, I still struggled.
I struggled with relationships. I struggled with confidence. I struggled with knowing what I was here to do.
For years I floated from job to job, bartending and serving, feeling like there had to be something more for me. I wanted purpose. I wanted passion. I wanted to wake up excited about my life instead of wondering what I was missing.
Ironically, bartending ended up teaching me something important.
Night after night, people would pull up a chair and start sharing their lives with me. Their relationships, dreams, heartbreaks, fears, and frustrations. What started as casual conversations often turned into deep discussions about life, confidence, purpose, and personal growth.
I realized that helping people navigate their challenges lit me up in a way no job ever had.
At the same time, I was on my own journey. Learning about feminine energy, nervous system regulation, self-worth, spirituality, and identity transformation. The more I healed and evolved, the more my outer world began to change.
I stopped trying to force life to happen and started becoming the woman who naturally attracted the experiences, opportunities, relationships, and confidence I had been searching for.
That journey eventually became She Who Attracts.
Today, I help women reconnect with themselves, regulate their nervous systems, build deep self-trust, and step into the version of themselves that no longer chases—but attracts.
Because the truth is, the life you desire isn't reserved for someone else.
It's available to you too.
In 2019, after yet another failed situationship, my body had enough.
At the time, it felt devastating. Looking back, it was one of the greatest gifts I have ever received.
For the first time, I was forced to look inward. I started asking myself the questions I had spent years avoiding.
Why was I constantly attracting emotionally unavailable partners?
Why did I never feel fully chosen?
Why did I keep ending up in the same painful patterns?
The answer was both heartbreaking and empowering.
I wasn't choosing myself.
I was waiting for someone else to validate my worth, choose me, commit to me, and show me the love I wasn't fully giving myself.
Once I began paying attention to all the ways I was abandoning myself and actively started changing those patterns, everything shifted.
I built a deeper sense of confidence than I had ever experienced before.
I began seeing myself differently.
I regulated my nervous system and stopped living in a constant state of anxiety and hypervigilance.
Most importantly, I stopped chasing love and started embodying the woman who naturally attracted it.
Not long after, I met the most incredible man 🥹someone completely different from the partners I had attracted in the past. The relationship I had always hoped for became possible because I had become a different version of myself first.
This is why I am so passionate about helping women.
Because I know what it feels like to lie awake at night wondering, "Why am I never the one who gets chosen?"
I know what it feels like to be stuck in the same patterns, desperately wanting more for your life while having no idea how to get there.
And I also know what is possible on the other side.
The confidence.
The peace.
The self-trust.
The love.
The feeling of finally becoming the woman you've always known you were meant to be.
This is She Who Attracts and this is what’s not only possible for you but meant for you.
I’m so excited to connect. Thank you for being here.
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